How I like to play

I gathered this information to hopefully answer any questions you may have regarding logistics, what items I have for us to play with and most importantly how I like to play and my limits during a play date.


Please try and be punctual, it demonstrates a genuine appreciation and respect for my time. If you are running late, please let me know as soon as you can and understand that our date will still end at the pre-arranged time unless agreed.

Your contribution is made in cash as soon as we meet, before anyone freshens up. If meeting in a public place I ask that you hand it discreetly in an unsealed envelope, book, magazine or gift bag. Please do not be offended if I take time to check the envelope.

Bare bottom spanking, Blindfolds, Body worshipping, Bondage (I know shibari at an intermediate level), Tie and Tease, Cock and Ball Torture, Ballbusting, Corporal punishment, Degradation & humiliation, Facesitting, Face slapping, Foot/shoe fetish, Forced masturbation, Inspections, Nipple play and torture, Orgasm denial and control, Prostate play and strap on sex (please prepare yourself before), Ruined orgasms, Sensation play, Role plays/Taboo role plays, Tickling, Wax play, Watersports – Please request in advance so I can hydrate.

Bare bottom spanking especially OTK, Body worshipping, Bondage (at discretion), Collar and leash play, Corporal punishment, Dd/lg (Daddy Dom/little girl), Degradation and humiliation, Forced masturbation, Inspections especially with CMNF (Clothed male, naked female), Orgasm denial and control, Panty gagging and ball gagging, Sub games, Taboo role plays (incest, teacher etc).

I have an array of toys for both of our enjoyment:

  • Gags
  • Collars and lead
  • Dildos: suction style, glass and ceramic 
  • Lelo vibrating Wand
  • Leg spreader bar – great for displaying and inspections!
  • Numerous sensation toys, from feathers to pinwheels
  • Strap on with a variety of different sized dildos
  • Butt plugs (for use on you only)
  • Blindfold (for use on you only)
  • Wax for wax play
  • Nipple clamps (used on myself at discretion)
  • Bondage equipment: rope, cuffs, tape (used on myself at discretion)
  • A selection of Canes, floggers, straps, crops and paddles (dates where I am receiving heavy impact or bruising need a bit more planning and may require extra contribution so please discuss this with me in advance)

Please let me if you are wanting to play with something specific before we meet and I will make sure I bring it along.

I love dressing up. Please let me know if you have any clothing requests in advance of our date.

  • Black, Red or White lingerie, suspenders, stockings, body stockings, hold ups, tights and fishnets
  • Many different shoes, from stripper heels to stiletto Louboutins and trainers.
  • Glamour dresses.
  • Latex: bra, skirt, dress, stockings, suspenders (please note I only wear full latex in the cooler months)
  • Robes/dressing gowns
  • Secretary/office wear, slutty or modest styles
  • Schoolgirl outfits, slutty or modest styles
  • ‘Little’ clothing
  • Gym/yoga clothing

Feel free to send me photos from my website or twitter with the outfits your like.

If you have a specific look in mind please let me know. If I do not own an item you are more than welcome to bring it along or send me a voucher in advance so I can purchase it.

Unprotected sex including giving oral without a condom on a penis, ball licking and bare genital to genital rubbing. Rimming, hardsports, needle play, blood play, breath play. I also do not receive: Anal, rough nipple play, biting, scratching, spitting, face slapping or ejaculation on my face or below my waist.

My nipples are also very sensitive, which means I generally do not like them being sucked, pulled or twisted hard. I much prefer to have my having my whole breast grabbed tightly and teased around my nipples without the focus being on the nipple itself. Some days are different and I will always let you know if I would like more direct nipple play.

If you are unsure if I enjoy something please ask before you try it, especially if we haven’t discussed it beforehand.

I use the Traffic light system:
RED (stop everything)
YELLOW (pause for a break or change something)
GREEN (keep going)
Please let me know your preferred safe word if you have one.

Please note if you do not stop when I have used my safe word or push continuously for a service I do not offer I will end the date immediately without a refund. You will also be blacklisted and reported. I offer safe, sane and consensual services with complete regard for safe practices and negotiated limits. I also do not tolerate drugs in my presence, nor excessive alcohol consumption.

My sexual health is very important to me, which is why I do not offer oral without a condom on penises, this includes no bare ball licking.

I have a wide range of condoms, gloves and dams on hand of our play. I only use protection I have supplied (all latex) so if you have a certain need or allergy do let me know in advance. Condoms are changed between oral and vaginal sex to ensure their safety. I regularly get full sexual health screenings and I suggest if you are sexually active you do so too, it is fast, free and anonymous in the UK.

Please be respectful of my time, if our date is drawing to an end and you would like to spend more time together please ask to extend and if I am available pay the appropriate contribution at the beginning of the extended time.

I do not endorse reviews on hobbyist forums as these sites are known for taking away providers anonymity and safety. If you submit a review on such websites, I will no longer see you.

Yes, certainly. If I have seen you in the last 12 months I am happy to provide a reference to another provider you are wanting to meet. Just give me a heads up and send them my email and I will get back to them as soon as possible.

I look forward to meeting you and please do not hesitate to contact me if you have any further questions or requests!