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Dungeons and duos

Hidden within the depths of the kink community lies a mysterious and alluring place known as a dungeon. Stepping foot into this realm is like entering a different world for some, for others it’s a homecoming. Either way, a dungeon is where desires and fantasies come to life.

I always find myself excited and nervous with anticipation when visiting a dungeon. The dimly lit rooms beckon me to explore further, unveiling a plethora of intriguing toys and furniture designed to cater to almost every imaginable kink. From the gentle rustle of ropes to the resounding impact of floggers, a play date in a dungeon is a sensuous affair.

My favourite thing about dungeons is they usually boast an array of play spaces, each catering to different kinks and fetishes. From the enticing realm of sensual play to the intense world of pain and pleasure, there is a toy for every proclivity.

Beyond the leather, latex, and equipment, the most memorable aspect is always the human connection. Over time it’s become more and more evident to me the beautiful way trust and care are formed during kinky interactions. While a dungeon may seem intimidating from the outside, it’s a place where people embrace their authentic selves.

As you can see, a dungeon is a particularly good place for a duo. These photos were taken at Peacock Parlour with Arazatah.

Get in touch if you dare to Dungeon and duo.

Pegging

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Purported as the sex act of our times, pegging is having a moment. It has been touted as empowering, proof of just how far gender equality has come. Women aren’t just wearing the trousers, they are wearing the cock itself. However, while it certainly is a delectably hot way to feel close to a partner, pegging is positively Paleolithic. Archeologists have literally unearthed a double-ended dildo that dates back to c.10,000 BC. For those finding themselves bumboozled, pegging is defined as “a sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating his anus with a strap-on dildo.” 

The strap-on has reared its head regularly throughout history. From Greek 5th century poet Hipponax immortalising pegging in his writing to dildo-centric tales told via papyrus in Ancient Egypt to Utigawa Sadashige’s Shunga print (c.1825) of the use of a harigata (dildo) in a MFF threesome, pegging has been a long standing affair internationally.

With a breadcrumb trail of dildos over thousands of years, and very little modernisation to design (a 10th-13th century double-ended jade dildo doesn’t look too dissimilar to this Vixen Creation beauty, how can pegging feel so modern? Well, much like fashion, sexual practice goes through its own trends. And, after a steady rise in interest around anal play on heterosexual men from the late 1990s, we can thank that Broad City episode in 2015 for pushing pegging to the foreground. It is no longer seen solely as a BDSM act where a Domme takes her submissive man anally, instead it is utilised as an additional form of intimacy between couples, much like any other form of sex, whether penetrative or not. 

It is the intimacy of pegging that I love the most. There is little that I find as intimate as strapping myself into my harness, carefully selecting a dildo to slot into it, and lubing myself up as my male partner watches on with an expression depicting a combination of anticipation and vulnerability. 

And vulnerable it is. The anus is a tender, sensitive place that needs to be treated with the utmost care and patience. Every body is unique and responds to penetration differently. As the penetrator, it takes experience and a certain level of intuitiveness to navigate the delicate sensibilities of anal play. No matter the level of experience of the person who is being pegged. Beginners need plenty of warming up ahead of dildo-use, and perhaps will need several anal-training sessions prior to the use of a strap-on. Anal training can be performed through prostate massage with fingers, and butt plugs that increase in width or other anal training toys. Whereas while the more experienced penetratee will often be able to receive a (well-lubed!) dildo straight away, sometimes they too will be in need of some gentle warming up first. Some days they may even not feel able to take their regular size, or will be too tense to receive a strap-on, and will need to stick to fingers. What matters the most is being attuned to your play partner and reading their cues to make sure the experience is the most pleasurable and satisfying it can be for them. 

I’ve been often asked where my own enjoyment lies in the pegging experience, as because I am not being obviously stimulated myself – how could it be pleasurable? But it is, immensely. Not only is being in tune with someone to such a fine degree incredibly sensual, but penetrating a man – switching roles – is heightened eroticism for me. And the stimulation isn’t solely mental, a strap-on harness provides a certain degree of pressure that, with thrusting, does wonders for me physically too. I have found that with plenty of sexual build-up and foreplay, I can even come when a session involves pegging. It’s the perfect climactic ending to a date for all involved.

Spanking

Spanking is a form of BDSM that can be as complex or as simple as you desire it to be, and capable of being a sensory playground. On every level.

I adore the adrenaline rush I feel as I hear the distinct whoosh that comes before the monosyllabic clap, announcing an instrument’s kiss upon its target: my bare bottom. Or as the spanker, the sight of an exposed lover in front of me, ready and willing to receive their spanks is an erotically visual delight.

It’s versatile. You can mix and match how you deliver spanks through textures, and utilising different levels of strength and speed, all to keep the spankee on their toes and begging you for more. Or rather – in my case – putty in your hands. It is equally satisfying as either the snack or meal: a perfect kinky add-on to vanilla sex or a fulfilling activity for the whole session.

The care and time I take to pick my implements and organise them into a neat little line, ready for my spankee, has a ritualistic and meditative quality. At my place you’ll find an assortment for every possible mood or roleplay. From floggers and paddles to canes, crops and even a strap or two, each is a well-crafted and well-kept instrument that oozes aesthetic appeal for layered visual pleasure. But if you ask me, nothing beats the feeling of a warm, firm hand.

And there’s more than just an adrenaline rush to be had. Russian researchers have found spanking is also capable of releasing endorphins, meaning: spanking has the power to make you happier. But we all already knew that, didn’t we?

When you’re in control

Spanking can be as pleasurable to give as it is to receive, and as a switch, I relish in having the opportunity to be the spankee and the spanker.

There is little that gets me as hot under the collar as being spanked. Whether as a bratty school-girl in need of a telling off or as an obedient submissive, I’m not picky. It’s the firm-handed gentleman guiding me gently over his knee, lifting my skirt up to expose my round, firm bottom, and divulging all the reasons why I’ve found myself in this position that arouses me to no end.

A little tip: the warm-up is the perfect time to tease your spankee. You have sexual tension and anticipation on your side, as you start to prepare the bottom with your hand to build up to implement use. In between short, sharp pats across the whole surface, you can dial up the temperature by massaging, caressing and kissing your spankee’s beautiful ass. Slide your hand between their thighs to check how aroused they are, or drag your nails gently across their skin.

This is a great technique to harness as you increase intensity and start to make use of implements, especially harder ones like a crop or cane. Make sure to take some soothing breaks in between strokes with some lighter spanks, or use the opportunity to get creative with your mouth, fingers, or tracing the cool, smooth leather of a paddle across the rosy skin to create a full-bodied sensory experience.

When I’m calling the shots

I love to have a spankee draped over my knee, too. It’s hard not to revel in the eroticism of feeling someone harden when they are draped over your lap.

I like to start slowly, rubbing their bare bottom with the palm of my hand to prepare the skin to receive the impact. And a proper warm up helps to prevent breaking any skin. I don’t want you waddling home. However, I do love to leave bottoms streaked with beautiful red lines, especially during roleplays. Perhaps I will play the part of hot, unyielding Headmistress, or your rebellious secretary that secretly wears the trousers. Each time your clothes brush against the heat still radiating from your bottom, I want you to think of me and the deviant time we spent together.

Once you are well warmed-up, the tempo increases. I like to incorporate dirty talk into my roleplays and if you enjoy it, that can include humiliation. Making you beg for more strokes, making you count each spank that has been delivered. Counting down. We could even incorporate a ball gag, some restraints, or a blindfold to heighten the sensations.

Aftercare is a must. Cuddles, some pillow talk, and gentle stroking to cool down your now very sensitive bottom. And when the session is finished, I make sure to have arnica cream close by to soothe your hot skin.

Dating during the Pandemic

I thought I would do an update, better late then never right?

During the last few months, I have been connecting with my lovers through virtual dating, such as video calls, phone calls and naughty sexting sessions.

My need for human interaction with others is even greater at this time, which is why I have decided to also offer outdoor social dates. I noticed a huge difference in myself once I started meeting friends while adhering to social distance rules.

I know you probably are wanting me to answer the burning question, ‘When will you be offering intimate dates?’ To be honest I am not sure when. My offerings are a reflection of the pandemic situation in London at the time and at the moment I am choosing not to meet with anyone intimately. If you would like to arrange a date for when it is safer for us to meet, I am still taking enquiries. Those I have met before or those that have provided screening will be contacted first to meet.

Although this time has been challenging, I have been very willing to adapt to the change of circumstances and try new and inventive ways of dating. In doing so, I have found myself building stronger connections with my clients.

Dominating

As you may of read, I am a switch. What is a switch? A switch is someone who enjoys switching between being Dominant and submissive. I personally do not have a preference for either, it depends on my mood, the person I am with and the dynamic that we share.

Now, I didn’t always call myself a switch. When I first got into kink I identified as a submissive and it wasn’t until I started my career that I had the opportunity to explore my dominant side. Very early on in my career I met some lovely gentlemen who I am ever so grateful for, as they let me explore my dominant side during our dates. It didn’t take me long to realise that I genuinely enjoy taking the lead in a scene. From the planning and selecting toys, to holding a man in my arms while he slowly floats back to reality.

Over time my skills have developed and I would describe my style of domination as very sensual and domestic (although a dungeon sounds fun). And don’t get me wrong, I can be cruel (I am quite the sadist) – within reason and consent of course. I love the feeling of a man under me, worshipping me while I use him, draining him of all his energy. I love teasing, inspecting every crevice with my gloved hands. And most of all, I love bringing men tantalisingly close to orgasm then reminding them how they are or what they are here for.

I have been told I am an attentive Domme. I am very cautious to ensure your limits are expressed well in advance, and that you feel comfortable in exploring things with me that you may not have explored before (if you are new to your submissive side). I have a lot of first hand experience as a submissive, so know how important these things are. You are in safe hands.

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Professional Slut

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Professional slut. That’s the term I like to use when referring to my job title.

I have always loved the word slut. I get asked by a lot by people why I decided to enter the sex industry and if I like my job. It’s a very personal question, and one I think people should avoid asking sex workers unless they bring it up themselves.

But as my one year anniversary as a professional slut has just passed, I thought I would fill you in on my experience so far.

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I have always loved sex and loved sharing my fixation for it with others, whether in conversation or in the bedroom. I have always been open to new sexual experiences and have been lucky enough to find lovers as open minded and willing to explore as I am. It makes me so happy that I can share a few hours with someone and give them the feelings I first had experiencing a kink or fantasy. I call it the post kink glow and I love leaving my clients with it!

Friends and lovers had always told me they thought I would enjoy escorting… and were they right! Escorting has given me a confidence I thought I already had; the time to travel and focus on myself; as well as the opportunity to meet some amazing gentleman and explore new kinks. I’ve had the pleasure of meeting men that, to be honest, I would never have met outside of this work and never thought would bring me so much happiness. I am eternally grateful to my clients and all my colleagues out there who have supported me this last year! It’s great to be a part of such a supportive community.

Role play

If you didn’t already pick up on this, I love role plays! I feel it gives a sense of purpose and direction for a session. What better a way to escape the mundane everyday than to role play as a different version of yourself? Maybe it’s a version of you that you have not yet explored or maybe a version that doesn’t fit into your current social identity.

Taboo Scenarios

Perhaps you are a manager and have always desired a provocative secretary to coerce? Perhaps you dream of taboo scenarios? I bet you are wondering how taboo I like it, well… the more taboo the better! I love role playing as younger innocent girl. It is a very easy role for me to play because believe it or not, until a few years ago I used to be that girl. I was young and innocent until I started to express my sexual wants and needs to partners, which is why I also love playing the promiscuous type. Both come very naturally to me.

Now I know what you are thinking – “role play? That sounds like a lot of pressure!” No, no, no – I can promise you now that I am not marking you on your role playing skills and there will no script for you to follow! It can be very general, from my outfit to my personality to a fully planned out scenario if you would like. I am also happy to make some suggestions if you’re short on ideas.

So before you say no to a role play, think about a desire you’ve always had and share it with me. We can recreate your fantasy and imprint it in your memory for years to come!

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Humiliation

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I remember my first sexual humiliation experience vividly. One of my first lovers made me bend over in the corner with my legs spread, while he sat on the bed watching. I felt so humiliated, all of my privates exposed. I knew he could see every detail of the part of my body I wasn’t fully comfortable looking at myself. I couldn’t bare to look him in the eye, I just stood there with my head between my legs hoping it would end soon.

After about 15 minutes of this, feeling his eyes on my bare backside, I felt wetness dripping down. I looked between my legs in shock to see streams of wetness dripping all over my thighs and onto the floor.

I thought to myself, “oh my gosh, why is this happening? I hope he doesn’t notice, what will he think of me?!” He laughed at me getting wetter and told me what he thought. He commented on how disgusting I was for enjoying being on display. To my surprise, his words didn’t upset me – they just made me wetter.

I was shocked at myself, but I had discovered something that really turned me on. I have since enjoyed many different types of humiliation, finding verbal humiliation to be ‘my thing’.